Is there a proverb to express “You are too late and it's your own fault.”?












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In Lithuanian language there is a proverb that translated word-for-word would say "The train does not wait for the shitting ones."



While sounding somewhat rude, it is perfect for expressing: "You are too late, and that's your own fault."



Is there any proverb in English that could convey the same idea?










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    I live in the U.S. and never had the pleasure of hearing this Lithuanian proverb before. Thank you! I have happily added it to my vocabulary. "The train does not wait for the shitting ones." Love it.
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    Tangentially related: Gorbatchev's famous "Those who are late will be castigated by life itself" ("Wer zu spät kommt, den bestraft das Leben"), aimed at Honecker.
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    @Bobble Doesn't that usually mean something akin to 'being unprepared for a situation'? If so, it has nothing to do with what OP said.
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In Lithuanian language there is a proverb that translated word-for-word would say "The train does not wait for the shitting ones."



While sounding somewhat rude, it is perfect for expressing: "You are too late, and that's your own fault."



Is there any proverb in English that could convey the same idea?










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    I live in the U.S. and never had the pleasure of hearing this Lithuanian proverb before. Thank you! I have happily added it to my vocabulary. "The train does not wait for the shitting ones." Love it.
    – Headblender
    Nov 15 '18 at 20:46






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    Tangentially related: Gorbatchev's famous "Those who are late will be castigated by life itself" ("Wer zu spät kommt, den bestraft das Leben"), aimed at Honecker.
    – Peter A. Schneider
    Nov 16 '18 at 1:07






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    @Bobble Doesn't that usually mean something akin to 'being unprepared for a situation'? If so, it has nothing to do with what OP said.
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In Lithuanian language there is a proverb that translated word-for-word would say "The train does not wait for the shitting ones."



While sounding somewhat rude, it is perfect for expressing: "You are too late, and that's your own fault."



Is there any proverb in English that could convey the same idea?










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In Lithuanian language there is a proverb that translated word-for-word would say "The train does not wait for the shitting ones."



While sounding somewhat rude, it is perfect for expressing: "You are too late, and that's your own fault."



Is there any proverb in English that could convey the same idea?







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    I live in the U.S. and never had the pleasure of hearing this Lithuanian proverb before. Thank you! I have happily added it to my vocabulary. "The train does not wait for the shitting ones." Love it.
    – Headblender
    Nov 15 '18 at 20:46






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    Tangentially related: Gorbatchev's famous "Those who are late will be castigated by life itself" ("Wer zu spät kommt, den bestraft das Leben"), aimed at Honecker.
    – Peter A. Schneider
    Nov 16 '18 at 1:07






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    A word or phrase request can easily attract a long list of answers when it’s too subjective – more of a poll or request for ideas. Unfortunately neither are a good fit for the Stack Exchange model. A Stack Exchange question is objective and specific enough that it has a clearly “right” answer. See: “Real questions have answers, not items or ideas or opinions”, “Single word requests, crosswords, and the fight against mediocrity”.
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    If possible, add details of research you’ve done, especially solutions you’ve already rejected, and why. If this is not possible because you really do have a subjective question, a welcoming place to ask for advice is our English Language & Usage Chat.
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    @Bobble Doesn't that usually mean something akin to 'being unprepared for a situation'? If so, it has nothing to do with what OP said.
    – Suthek
    Nov 22 '18 at 10:23














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    I live in the U.S. and never had the pleasure of hearing this Lithuanian proverb before. Thank you! I have happily added it to my vocabulary. "The train does not wait for the shitting ones." Love it.
    – Headblender
    Nov 15 '18 at 20:46






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    Tangentially related: Gorbatchev's famous "Those who are late will be castigated by life itself" ("Wer zu spät kommt, den bestraft das Leben"), aimed at Honecker.
    – Peter A. Schneider
    Nov 16 '18 at 1:07






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    A word or phrase request can easily attract a long list of answers when it’s too subjective – more of a poll or request for ideas. Unfortunately neither are a good fit for the Stack Exchange model. A Stack Exchange question is objective and specific enough that it has a clearly “right” answer. See: “Real questions have answers, not items or ideas or opinions”, “Single word requests, crosswords, and the fight against mediocrity”.
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    If possible, add details of research you’ve done, especially solutions you’ve already rejected, and why. If this is not possible because you really do have a subjective question, a welcoming place to ask for advice is our English Language & Usage Chat.
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    @Bobble Doesn't that usually mean something akin to 'being unprepared for a situation'? If so, it has nothing to do with what OP said.
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I live in the U.S. and never had the pleasure of hearing this Lithuanian proverb before. Thank you! I have happily added it to my vocabulary. "The train does not wait for the shitting ones." Love it.
– Headblender
Nov 15 '18 at 20:46




I live in the U.S. and never had the pleasure of hearing this Lithuanian proverb before. Thank you! I have happily added it to my vocabulary. "The train does not wait for the shitting ones." Love it.
– Headblender
Nov 15 '18 at 20:46




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Tangentially related: Gorbatchev's famous "Those who are late will be castigated by life itself" ("Wer zu spät kommt, den bestraft das Leben"), aimed at Honecker.
– Peter A. Schneider
Nov 16 '18 at 1:07




Tangentially related: Gorbatchev's famous "Those who are late will be castigated by life itself" ("Wer zu spät kommt, den bestraft das Leben"), aimed at Honecker.
– Peter A. Schneider
Nov 16 '18 at 1:07




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@Bobble Doesn't that usually mean something akin to 'being unprepared for a situation'? If so, it has nothing to do with what OP said.
– Suthek
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@Bobble Doesn't that usually mean something akin to 'being unprepared for a situation'? If so, it has nothing to do with what OP said.
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More succintly, and less formally, there is also "You snooze, you lose!"




(idiomatic) If you are not alert and attentive, you will not be successful.




https://en.wiktionary.org/wiki/you_snooze_you_lose






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    Ah, this could be it! While it looks quite different, I think the idea behind is basically the same.
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    Honestly, I like this one MUST better than the Lithuanian one. Sometimes nature calls and then does not cooperate with a speedy exit, and it's not your fault that you missed the train because of this. Snoozing, on the other hand, implies something deliberate that is your fault, and at least to me this form of the word omits sleep disorders beyond your control.
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Time and tide wait for no man, is an English proverb with a similar meaning.






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    I find this quite appropriate, maybe the closest in meaning, maybe just a little less common than some of the other suggestion, thanks!
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I can think of two that might be appropriate.



Though it doesn't necessarily deal directly with tardiness, there is, "You've made your bed. Now lie in it."
According to the online Cambridge Dictionary, it means:




said to someone who must accept the unpleasant results of something
they have done




Also, there is, "That ship has sailed."
The website UsingEnglish.com defines that as:




A particular opportunity has passed you by when that ship has sailed.




Although fault isn't explicit, I'd argue the latter idiom suggests the fault lies with the individual having waited too long to take advantage of an opportunity.






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    A variant is "to miss the boat": collinsdictionary.com/dictionary/english/to-miss-the-boat
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    @PaulJohnson: true, please post that one as answer in its own right, it's also good
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A day late and a dollar short



is another idiom meaning




late and ill-prepared




There is even a TV movie with this as a title based on a book of the same title






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  • Wow, so many story plots come to mind with this expression, truly poetic.
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    @brasofilo, and the universalit of the statement is amazing. Every person on Earth has experienced this truism.
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The early bird gets the worm.




Whoever arrives at the prize first gets it. (It's implied that slowpokes do not get anything)






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    “EARLY BIRD Oh, if you’re a bird, be an early bird And catch the worm for your breakfast plate. If you’re a bird, be an early early bird-- But if you’re a worm, sleep late.” ― Shel Silverstein, Where the Sidewalk Ends
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    I still prefer the corollary: "But the second mouse gets the cheese..."
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  • And if you want something else for breakfast, get up later.
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  • This expresses the corollary of the OP's thought.
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How about




He who hesitates is lost




I had to look up the source for this proverb, which seems to be a play:



https://www.bookbrowse.com/expressions/detail/index.cfm/expression_number/455/he-who-hesitates-is-lost






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    Regarding 'trains' and tardiness...




    That train has left the station.




    (Also, the train instead of that train is said.)



    Broadly defined:




    That opportunity has already passed; that cannot be undone.




    https://www.phrases.net/phrase/that-train-has-left-the-station_20986



    It's similar to this saying--You've missed the boat.--meaning something is already underway, so it's too late to weigh in on that; you've missed your chance to do so or an opportunity in general.



    And regarding the [pooping] ones...



    "[Poop] or get off the pot!" Basic meaning: Quit stalling!



    Get it? Public restroom stalls... Never mind; toilet humor is optional.






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    • Isn't 'shit or get off the pot' more about hogging facilities/opportunities and stopping others accessing them? It's akin to 'dog in the manger' in that it is about the result of the shitter/dog being in a place they have no use for as a dog cannot east hay. The idiom the OP is after is about the person's loss being their own fault.
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    • @Spagirl, I know, some people use it like--My turn!--quite literally in public restrooms sometimes, but it's more about the 'constipated' person wasting time and possibly missing out because of it; it's not really about selfishness, but that's an interesting viewpoint. Which are we more concerned about--the pooper or the pot?--ha-ha. In any case, the poop part is intended to be an aside; that's why no reference is cited for it, but here is one just FYI: en.oxforddictionaries.com/definition/….
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    • I stand corrected then, that's certainly never been my understanding of the meaning. Every day a school day!
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      My upvote is for "The train has left the station."
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    I've once heard the latin saying :




    Tarde venientibus ossa.




    Those who come late just get the scraps [litt. 'bones'].



    This is admittedly not English, but a reference exists in wikipedia.






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    • My English parents used this saying on me to mean "you are too late and it is your fault". Typically for not getting to the dinner table promptly and the worst I ever actually got was a cold dinner.
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    @drewhart mentioned "that ship has sailed", but it doesn't really imply fault. However a common variant is "You missed the boat", which does imply that it is your fault in much the same way as the Lithuanian proverb.






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      Yes but neither has any inference of "fault", does it?
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    • @RobbieGoodwin "That ship has sailed" may not, but "You missed the boat" does. Answer edited, as its a good point.
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    If you say




    Too little, too late




    you're "blaming someone for not doing enough to prevent a problem and for taking action only after the problem had become very bad."



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      Although not specifically about lateness an Englishman might remind one of the ongoing consequences of a person`s actions by saying "The pigeons have come (or will have come) home to roost.






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      • He might well, and that's really not comparable. "The pigeons have (will have) come home to roost" means only that someone's been caught out… if you like, that the pigeon keeper has been caught out but either way, nothing to do with anyone being late unless it's changed to "The pigeons have (will have) already come home to roost."
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      More succintly, and less formally, there is also "You snooze, you lose!"




      (idiomatic) If you are not alert and attentive, you will not be successful.




      https://en.wiktionary.org/wiki/you_snooze_you_lose






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        Ah, this could be it! While it looks quite different, I think the idea behind is basically the same.
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        Honestly, I like this one MUST better than the Lithuanian one. Sometimes nature calls and then does not cooperate with a speedy exit, and it's not your fault that you missed the train because of this. Snoozing, on the other hand, implies something deliberate that is your fault, and at least to me this form of the word omits sleep disorders beyond your control.
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      More succintly, and less formally, there is also "You snooze, you lose!"




      (idiomatic) If you are not alert and attentive, you will not be successful.




      https://en.wiktionary.org/wiki/you_snooze_you_lose






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        Ah, this could be it! While it looks quite different, I think the idea behind is basically the same.
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        Honestly, I like this one MUST better than the Lithuanian one. Sometimes nature calls and then does not cooperate with a speedy exit, and it's not your fault that you missed the train because of this. Snoozing, on the other hand, implies something deliberate that is your fault, and at least to me this form of the word omits sleep disorders beyond your control.
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      More succintly, and less formally, there is also "You snooze, you lose!"




      (idiomatic) If you are not alert and attentive, you will not be successful.




      https://en.wiktionary.org/wiki/you_snooze_you_lose






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      More succintly, and less formally, there is also "You snooze, you lose!"




      (idiomatic) If you are not alert and attentive, you will not be successful.




      https://en.wiktionary.org/wiki/you_snooze_you_lose







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        Ah, this could be it! While it looks quite different, I think the idea behind is basically the same.
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        Honestly, I like this one MUST better than the Lithuanian one. Sometimes nature calls and then does not cooperate with a speedy exit, and it's not your fault that you missed the train because of this. Snoozing, on the other hand, implies something deliberate that is your fault, and at least to me this form of the word omits sleep disorders beyond your control.
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        Ah, this could be it! While it looks quite different, I think the idea behind is basically the same.
        – april
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        Honestly, I like this one MUST better than the Lithuanian one. Sometimes nature calls and then does not cooperate with a speedy exit, and it's not your fault that you missed the train because of this. Snoozing, on the other hand, implies something deliberate that is your fault, and at least to me this form of the word omits sleep disorders beyond your control.
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      Ah, this could be it! While it looks quite different, I think the idea behind is basically the same.
      – april
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      Ah, this could be it! While it looks quite different, I think the idea behind is basically the same.
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      Honestly, I like this one MUST better than the Lithuanian one. Sometimes nature calls and then does not cooperate with a speedy exit, and it's not your fault that you missed the train because of this. Snoozing, on the other hand, implies something deliberate that is your fault, and at least to me this form of the word omits sleep disorders beyond your control.
      – Michael
      Nov 16 '18 at 22:29




      Honestly, I like this one MUST better than the Lithuanian one. Sometimes nature calls and then does not cooperate with a speedy exit, and it's not your fault that you missed the train because of this. Snoozing, on the other hand, implies something deliberate that is your fault, and at least to me this form of the word omits sleep disorders beyond your control.
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        I find this quite appropriate, maybe the closest in meaning, maybe just a little less common than some of the other suggestion, thanks!
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        I find this quite appropriate, maybe the closest in meaning, maybe just a little less common than some of the other suggestion, thanks!
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        @justhalf It's really not obligatory. You could just ... not post xkcd links. It's not even a funny comic...
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        I find this quite appropriate, maybe the closest in meaning, maybe just a little less common than some of the other suggestion, thanks!
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        @justhalf It's really not obligatory. You could just ... not post xkcd links. It's not even a funny comic...
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        XKCD adds value to everything. (46 upvoters agree)
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        I doubt that I have seen 200 in total, so you might be right. I only have time to look at XKCD when I am ... xkcd.com/303
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        Obligatory XKCD: xkcd.com/1704
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        I find this quite appropriate, maybe the closest in meaning, maybe just a little less common than some of the other suggestion, thanks!
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        @justhalf It's really not obligatory. You could just ... not post xkcd links. It's not even a funny comic...
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        XKCD adds value to everything. (46 upvoters agree)
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        I doubt that I have seen 200 in total, so you might be right. I only have time to look at XKCD when I am ... xkcd.com/303
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      I find this quite appropriate, maybe the closest in meaning, maybe just a little less common than some of the other suggestion, thanks!
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      I find this quite appropriate, maybe the closest in meaning, maybe just a little less common than some of the other suggestion, thanks!
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      @justhalf It's really not obligatory. You could just ... not post xkcd links. It's not even a funny comic...
      – only_pro
      Nov 16 '18 at 18:22




      @justhalf It's really not obligatory. You could just ... not post xkcd links. It's not even a funny comic...
      – only_pro
      Nov 16 '18 at 18:22




      9




      9




      XKCD adds value to everything. (46 upvoters agree)
      – Yvonne Aburrow
      Nov 16 '18 at 18:52




      XKCD adds value to everything. (46 upvoters agree)
      – Yvonne Aburrow
      Nov 16 '18 at 18:52




      2




      2




      I doubt that I have seen 200 in total, so you might be right. I only have time to look at XKCD when I am ... xkcd.com/303
      – Mawg
      Nov 21 '18 at 15:29




      I doubt that I have seen 200 in total, so you might be right. I only have time to look at XKCD when I am ... xkcd.com/303
      – Mawg
      Nov 21 '18 at 15:29











      50














      I can think of two that might be appropriate.



      Though it doesn't necessarily deal directly with tardiness, there is, "You've made your bed. Now lie in it."
      According to the online Cambridge Dictionary, it means:




      said to someone who must accept the unpleasant results of something
      they have done




      Also, there is, "That ship has sailed."
      The website UsingEnglish.com defines that as:




      A particular opportunity has passed you by when that ship has sailed.




      Although fault isn't explicit, I'd argue the latter idiom suggests the fault lies with the individual having waited too long to take advantage of an opportunity.






      share|improve this answer



















      • 7




        A variant is "to miss the boat": collinsdictionary.com/dictionary/english/to-miss-the-boat
        – Paul Johnson
        Nov 16 '18 at 11:01






      • 2




        @PaulJohnson: true, please post that one as answer in its own right, it's also good
        – smci
        Nov 17 '18 at 2:27
















      50














      I can think of two that might be appropriate.



      Though it doesn't necessarily deal directly with tardiness, there is, "You've made your bed. Now lie in it."
      According to the online Cambridge Dictionary, it means:




      said to someone who must accept the unpleasant results of something
      they have done




      Also, there is, "That ship has sailed."
      The website UsingEnglish.com defines that as:




      A particular opportunity has passed you by when that ship has sailed.




      Although fault isn't explicit, I'd argue the latter idiom suggests the fault lies with the individual having waited too long to take advantage of an opportunity.






      share|improve this answer



















      • 7




        A variant is "to miss the boat": collinsdictionary.com/dictionary/english/to-miss-the-boat
        – Paul Johnson
        Nov 16 '18 at 11:01






      • 2




        @PaulJohnson: true, please post that one as answer in its own right, it's also good
        – smci
        Nov 17 '18 at 2:27














      50












      50








      50






      I can think of two that might be appropriate.



      Though it doesn't necessarily deal directly with tardiness, there is, "You've made your bed. Now lie in it."
      According to the online Cambridge Dictionary, it means:




      said to someone who must accept the unpleasant results of something
      they have done




      Also, there is, "That ship has sailed."
      The website UsingEnglish.com defines that as:




      A particular opportunity has passed you by when that ship has sailed.




      Although fault isn't explicit, I'd argue the latter idiom suggests the fault lies with the individual having waited too long to take advantage of an opportunity.






      share|improve this answer














      I can think of two that might be appropriate.



      Though it doesn't necessarily deal directly with tardiness, there is, "You've made your bed. Now lie in it."
      According to the online Cambridge Dictionary, it means:




      said to someone who must accept the unpleasant results of something
      they have done




      Also, there is, "That ship has sailed."
      The website UsingEnglish.com defines that as:




      A particular opportunity has passed you by when that ship has sailed.




      Although fault isn't explicit, I'd argue the latter idiom suggests the fault lies with the individual having waited too long to take advantage of an opportunity.







      share|improve this answer














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      edited Nov 14 '18 at 22:47

























      answered Nov 14 '18 at 16:13









      drewhart

      1,328211




      1,328211








      • 7




        A variant is "to miss the boat": collinsdictionary.com/dictionary/english/to-miss-the-boat
        – Paul Johnson
        Nov 16 '18 at 11:01






      • 2




        @PaulJohnson: true, please post that one as answer in its own right, it's also good
        – smci
        Nov 17 '18 at 2:27














      • 7




        A variant is "to miss the boat": collinsdictionary.com/dictionary/english/to-miss-the-boat
        – Paul Johnson
        Nov 16 '18 at 11:01






      • 2




        @PaulJohnson: true, please post that one as answer in its own right, it's also good
        – smci
        Nov 17 '18 at 2:27








      7




      7




      A variant is "to miss the boat": collinsdictionary.com/dictionary/english/to-miss-the-boat
      – Paul Johnson
      Nov 16 '18 at 11:01




      A variant is "to miss the boat": collinsdictionary.com/dictionary/english/to-miss-the-boat
      – Paul Johnson
      Nov 16 '18 at 11:01




      2




      2




      @PaulJohnson: true, please post that one as answer in its own right, it's also good
      – smci
      Nov 17 '18 at 2:27




      @PaulJohnson: true, please post that one as answer in its own right, it's also good
      – smci
      Nov 17 '18 at 2:27











      31














      A day late and a dollar short



      is another idiom meaning




      late and ill-prepared




      There is even a TV movie with this as a title based on a book of the same title






      share|improve this answer





















      • Wow, so many story plots come to mind with this expression, truly poetic.
        – brasofilo
        Nov 18 '18 at 9:56






      • 1




        @brasofilo, and the universalit of the statement is amazing. Every person on Earth has experienced this truism.
        – JBH
        Nov 18 '18 at 17:29
















      31














      A day late and a dollar short



      is another idiom meaning




      late and ill-prepared




      There is even a TV movie with this as a title based on a book of the same title






      share|improve this answer





















      • Wow, so many story plots come to mind with this expression, truly poetic.
        – brasofilo
        Nov 18 '18 at 9:56






      • 1




        @brasofilo, and the universalit of the statement is amazing. Every person on Earth has experienced this truism.
        – JBH
        Nov 18 '18 at 17:29














      31












      31








      31






      A day late and a dollar short



      is another idiom meaning




      late and ill-prepared




      There is even a TV movie with this as a title based on a book of the same title






      share|improve this answer












      A day late and a dollar short



      is another idiom meaning




      late and ill-prepared




      There is even a TV movie with this as a title based on a book of the same title







      share|improve this answer












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      answered Nov 14 '18 at 22:51









      Michael J.

      2,032516




      2,032516












      • Wow, so many story plots come to mind with this expression, truly poetic.
        – brasofilo
        Nov 18 '18 at 9:56






      • 1




        @brasofilo, and the universalit of the statement is amazing. Every person on Earth has experienced this truism.
        – JBH
        Nov 18 '18 at 17:29


















      • Wow, so many story plots come to mind with this expression, truly poetic.
        – brasofilo
        Nov 18 '18 at 9:56






      • 1




        @brasofilo, and the universalit of the statement is amazing. Every person on Earth has experienced this truism.
        – JBH
        Nov 18 '18 at 17:29
















      Wow, so many story plots come to mind with this expression, truly poetic.
      – brasofilo
      Nov 18 '18 at 9:56




      Wow, so many story plots come to mind with this expression, truly poetic.
      – brasofilo
      Nov 18 '18 at 9:56




      1




      1




      @brasofilo, and the universalit of the statement is amazing. Every person on Earth has experienced this truism.
      – JBH
      Nov 18 '18 at 17:29




      @brasofilo, and the universalit of the statement is amazing. Every person on Earth has experienced this truism.
      – JBH
      Nov 18 '18 at 17:29











      16















      The early bird gets the worm.




      Whoever arrives at the prize first gets it. (It's implied that slowpokes do not get anything)






      share|improve this answer

















      • 11




        “EARLY BIRD Oh, if you’re a bird, be an early bird And catch the worm for your breakfast plate. If you’re a bird, be an early early bird-- But if you’re a worm, sleep late.” ― Shel Silverstein, Where the Sidewalk Ends
        – KannE
        Nov 15 '18 at 3:05






      • 19




        I still prefer the corollary: "But the second mouse gets the cheese..."
        – Darrel Hoffman
        Nov 15 '18 at 16:32










      • And if you want something else for breakfast, get up later.
        – RedSonja
        Nov 16 '18 at 9:14










      • This expresses the corollary of the OP's thought.
        – Andrew Neely
        Nov 21 '18 at 14:39
















      16















      The early bird gets the worm.




      Whoever arrives at the prize first gets it. (It's implied that slowpokes do not get anything)






      share|improve this answer

















      • 11




        “EARLY BIRD Oh, if you’re a bird, be an early bird And catch the worm for your breakfast plate. If you’re a bird, be an early early bird-- But if you’re a worm, sleep late.” ― Shel Silverstein, Where the Sidewalk Ends
        – KannE
        Nov 15 '18 at 3:05






      • 19




        I still prefer the corollary: "But the second mouse gets the cheese..."
        – Darrel Hoffman
        Nov 15 '18 at 16:32










      • And if you want something else for breakfast, get up later.
        – RedSonja
        Nov 16 '18 at 9:14










      • This expresses the corollary of the OP's thought.
        – Andrew Neely
        Nov 21 '18 at 14:39














      16












      16








      16







      The early bird gets the worm.




      Whoever arrives at the prize first gets it. (It's implied that slowpokes do not get anything)






      share|improve this answer













      The early bird gets the worm.




      Whoever arrives at the prize first gets it. (It's implied that slowpokes do not get anything)







      share|improve this answer












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      answered Nov 15 '18 at 2:09









      Arcanist Lupus

      2693




      2693








      • 11




        “EARLY BIRD Oh, if you’re a bird, be an early bird And catch the worm for your breakfast plate. If you’re a bird, be an early early bird-- But if you’re a worm, sleep late.” ― Shel Silverstein, Where the Sidewalk Ends
        – KannE
        Nov 15 '18 at 3:05






      • 19




        I still prefer the corollary: "But the second mouse gets the cheese..."
        – Darrel Hoffman
        Nov 15 '18 at 16:32










      • And if you want something else for breakfast, get up later.
        – RedSonja
        Nov 16 '18 at 9:14










      • This expresses the corollary of the OP's thought.
        – Andrew Neely
        Nov 21 '18 at 14:39














      • 11




        “EARLY BIRD Oh, if you’re a bird, be an early bird And catch the worm for your breakfast plate. If you’re a bird, be an early early bird-- But if you’re a worm, sleep late.” ― Shel Silverstein, Where the Sidewalk Ends
        – KannE
        Nov 15 '18 at 3:05






      • 19




        I still prefer the corollary: "But the second mouse gets the cheese..."
        – Darrel Hoffman
        Nov 15 '18 at 16:32










      • And if you want something else for breakfast, get up later.
        – RedSonja
        Nov 16 '18 at 9:14










      • This expresses the corollary of the OP's thought.
        – Andrew Neely
        Nov 21 '18 at 14:39








      11




      11




      “EARLY BIRD Oh, if you’re a bird, be an early bird And catch the worm for your breakfast plate. If you’re a bird, be an early early bird-- But if you’re a worm, sleep late.” ― Shel Silverstein, Where the Sidewalk Ends
      – KannE
      Nov 15 '18 at 3:05




      “EARLY BIRD Oh, if you’re a bird, be an early bird And catch the worm for your breakfast plate. If you’re a bird, be an early early bird-- But if you’re a worm, sleep late.” ― Shel Silverstein, Where the Sidewalk Ends
      – KannE
      Nov 15 '18 at 3:05




      19




      19




      I still prefer the corollary: "But the second mouse gets the cheese..."
      – Darrel Hoffman
      Nov 15 '18 at 16:32




      I still prefer the corollary: "But the second mouse gets the cheese..."
      – Darrel Hoffman
      Nov 15 '18 at 16:32












      And if you want something else for breakfast, get up later.
      – RedSonja
      Nov 16 '18 at 9:14




      And if you want something else for breakfast, get up later.
      – RedSonja
      Nov 16 '18 at 9:14












      This expresses the corollary of the OP's thought.
      – Andrew Neely
      Nov 21 '18 at 14:39




      This expresses the corollary of the OP's thought.
      – Andrew Neely
      Nov 21 '18 at 14:39











      9














      How about




      He who hesitates is lost




      I had to look up the source for this proverb, which seems to be a play:



      https://www.bookbrowse.com/expressions/detail/index.cfm/expression_number/455/he-who-hesitates-is-lost






      share|improve this answer


























        9














        How about




        He who hesitates is lost




        I had to look up the source for this proverb, which seems to be a play:



        https://www.bookbrowse.com/expressions/detail/index.cfm/expression_number/455/he-who-hesitates-is-lost






        share|improve this answer
























          9












          9








          9






          How about




          He who hesitates is lost




          I had to look up the source for this proverb, which seems to be a play:



          https://www.bookbrowse.com/expressions/detail/index.cfm/expression_number/455/he-who-hesitates-is-lost






          share|improve this answer












          How about




          He who hesitates is lost




          I had to look up the source for this proverb, which seems to be a play:



          https://www.bookbrowse.com/expressions/detail/index.cfm/expression_number/455/he-who-hesitates-is-lost







          share|improve this answer












          share|improve this answer



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          answered Nov 14 '18 at 22:28









          pbasdf

          940117




          940117























              8














              Regarding 'trains' and tardiness...




              That train has left the station.




              (Also, the train instead of that train is said.)



              Broadly defined:




              That opportunity has already passed; that cannot be undone.




              https://www.phrases.net/phrase/that-train-has-left-the-station_20986



              It's similar to this saying--You've missed the boat.--meaning something is already underway, so it's too late to weigh in on that; you've missed your chance to do so or an opportunity in general.



              And regarding the [pooping] ones...



              "[Poop] or get off the pot!" Basic meaning: Quit stalling!



              Get it? Public restroom stalls... Never mind; toilet humor is optional.






              share|improve this answer























              • Isn't 'shit or get off the pot' more about hogging facilities/opportunities and stopping others accessing them? It's akin to 'dog in the manger' in that it is about the result of the shitter/dog being in a place they have no use for as a dog cannot east hay. The idiom the OP is after is about the person's loss being their own fault.
                – Spagirl
                Nov 15 '18 at 15:08












              • @Spagirl, I know, some people use it like--My turn!--quite literally in public restrooms sometimes, but it's more about the 'constipated' person wasting time and possibly missing out because of it; it's not really about selfishness, but that's an interesting viewpoint. Which are we more concerned about--the pooper or the pot?--ha-ha. In any case, the poop part is intended to be an aside; that's why no reference is cited for it, but here is one just FYI: en.oxforddictionaries.com/definition/….
                – KannE
                Nov 15 '18 at 17:25












              • I stand corrected then, that's certainly never been my understanding of the meaning. Every day a school day!
                – Spagirl
                Nov 15 '18 at 17:33






              • 1




                My upvote is for "The train has left the station."
                – J.R.
                Nov 16 '18 at 12:28
















              8














              Regarding 'trains' and tardiness...




              That train has left the station.




              (Also, the train instead of that train is said.)



              Broadly defined:




              That opportunity has already passed; that cannot be undone.




              https://www.phrases.net/phrase/that-train-has-left-the-station_20986



              It's similar to this saying--You've missed the boat.--meaning something is already underway, so it's too late to weigh in on that; you've missed your chance to do so or an opportunity in general.



              And regarding the [pooping] ones...



              "[Poop] or get off the pot!" Basic meaning: Quit stalling!



              Get it? Public restroom stalls... Never mind; toilet humor is optional.






              share|improve this answer























              • Isn't 'shit or get off the pot' more about hogging facilities/opportunities and stopping others accessing them? It's akin to 'dog in the manger' in that it is about the result of the shitter/dog being in a place they have no use for as a dog cannot east hay. The idiom the OP is after is about the person's loss being their own fault.
                – Spagirl
                Nov 15 '18 at 15:08












              • @Spagirl, I know, some people use it like--My turn!--quite literally in public restrooms sometimes, but it's more about the 'constipated' person wasting time and possibly missing out because of it; it's not really about selfishness, but that's an interesting viewpoint. Which are we more concerned about--the pooper or the pot?--ha-ha. In any case, the poop part is intended to be an aside; that's why no reference is cited for it, but here is one just FYI: en.oxforddictionaries.com/definition/….
                – KannE
                Nov 15 '18 at 17:25












              • I stand corrected then, that's certainly never been my understanding of the meaning. Every day a school day!
                – Spagirl
                Nov 15 '18 at 17:33






              • 1




                My upvote is for "The train has left the station."
                – J.R.
                Nov 16 '18 at 12:28














              8












              8








              8






              Regarding 'trains' and tardiness...




              That train has left the station.




              (Also, the train instead of that train is said.)



              Broadly defined:




              That opportunity has already passed; that cannot be undone.




              https://www.phrases.net/phrase/that-train-has-left-the-station_20986



              It's similar to this saying--You've missed the boat.--meaning something is already underway, so it's too late to weigh in on that; you've missed your chance to do so or an opportunity in general.



              And regarding the [pooping] ones...



              "[Poop] or get off the pot!" Basic meaning: Quit stalling!



              Get it? Public restroom stalls... Never mind; toilet humor is optional.






              share|improve this answer














              Regarding 'trains' and tardiness...




              That train has left the station.




              (Also, the train instead of that train is said.)



              Broadly defined:




              That opportunity has already passed; that cannot be undone.




              https://www.phrases.net/phrase/that-train-has-left-the-station_20986



              It's similar to this saying--You've missed the boat.--meaning something is already underway, so it's too late to weigh in on that; you've missed your chance to do so or an opportunity in general.



              And regarding the [pooping] ones...



              "[Poop] or get off the pot!" Basic meaning: Quit stalling!



              Get it? Public restroom stalls... Never mind; toilet humor is optional.







              share|improve this answer














              share|improve this answer



              share|improve this answer








              edited Nov 16 '18 at 15:02

























              answered Nov 15 '18 at 4:38









              KannE

              784114




              784114












              • Isn't 'shit or get off the pot' more about hogging facilities/opportunities and stopping others accessing them? It's akin to 'dog in the manger' in that it is about the result of the shitter/dog being in a place they have no use for as a dog cannot east hay. The idiom the OP is after is about the person's loss being their own fault.
                – Spagirl
                Nov 15 '18 at 15:08












              • @Spagirl, I know, some people use it like--My turn!--quite literally in public restrooms sometimes, but it's more about the 'constipated' person wasting time and possibly missing out because of it; it's not really about selfishness, but that's an interesting viewpoint. Which are we more concerned about--the pooper or the pot?--ha-ha. In any case, the poop part is intended to be an aside; that's why no reference is cited for it, but here is one just FYI: en.oxforddictionaries.com/definition/….
                – KannE
                Nov 15 '18 at 17:25












              • I stand corrected then, that's certainly never been my understanding of the meaning. Every day a school day!
                – Spagirl
                Nov 15 '18 at 17:33






              • 1




                My upvote is for "The train has left the station."
                – J.R.
                Nov 16 '18 at 12:28


















              • Isn't 'shit or get off the pot' more about hogging facilities/opportunities and stopping others accessing them? It's akin to 'dog in the manger' in that it is about the result of the shitter/dog being in a place they have no use for as a dog cannot east hay. The idiom the OP is after is about the person's loss being their own fault.
                – Spagirl
                Nov 15 '18 at 15:08












              • @Spagirl, I know, some people use it like--My turn!--quite literally in public restrooms sometimes, but it's more about the 'constipated' person wasting time and possibly missing out because of it; it's not really about selfishness, but that's an interesting viewpoint. Which are we more concerned about--the pooper or the pot?--ha-ha. In any case, the poop part is intended to be an aside; that's why no reference is cited for it, but here is one just FYI: en.oxforddictionaries.com/definition/….
                – KannE
                Nov 15 '18 at 17:25












              • I stand corrected then, that's certainly never been my understanding of the meaning. Every day a school day!
                – Spagirl
                Nov 15 '18 at 17:33






              • 1




                My upvote is for "The train has left the station."
                – J.R.
                Nov 16 '18 at 12:28
















              Isn't 'shit or get off the pot' more about hogging facilities/opportunities and stopping others accessing them? It's akin to 'dog in the manger' in that it is about the result of the shitter/dog being in a place they have no use for as a dog cannot east hay. The idiom the OP is after is about the person's loss being their own fault.
              – Spagirl
              Nov 15 '18 at 15:08






              Isn't 'shit or get off the pot' more about hogging facilities/opportunities and stopping others accessing them? It's akin to 'dog in the manger' in that it is about the result of the shitter/dog being in a place they have no use for as a dog cannot east hay. The idiom the OP is after is about the person's loss being their own fault.
              – Spagirl
              Nov 15 '18 at 15:08














              @Spagirl, I know, some people use it like--My turn!--quite literally in public restrooms sometimes, but it's more about the 'constipated' person wasting time and possibly missing out because of it; it's not really about selfishness, but that's an interesting viewpoint. Which are we more concerned about--the pooper or the pot?--ha-ha. In any case, the poop part is intended to be an aside; that's why no reference is cited for it, but here is one just FYI: en.oxforddictionaries.com/definition/….
              – KannE
              Nov 15 '18 at 17:25






              @Spagirl, I know, some people use it like--My turn!--quite literally in public restrooms sometimes, but it's more about the 'constipated' person wasting time and possibly missing out because of it; it's not really about selfishness, but that's an interesting viewpoint. Which are we more concerned about--the pooper or the pot?--ha-ha. In any case, the poop part is intended to be an aside; that's why no reference is cited for it, but here is one just FYI: en.oxforddictionaries.com/definition/….
              – KannE
              Nov 15 '18 at 17:25














              I stand corrected then, that's certainly never been my understanding of the meaning. Every day a school day!
              – Spagirl
              Nov 15 '18 at 17:33




              I stand corrected then, that's certainly never been my understanding of the meaning. Every day a school day!
              – Spagirl
              Nov 15 '18 at 17:33




              1




              1




              My upvote is for "The train has left the station."
              – J.R.
              Nov 16 '18 at 12:28




              My upvote is for "The train has left the station."
              – J.R.
              Nov 16 '18 at 12:28











              4














              I've once heard the latin saying :




              Tarde venientibus ossa.




              Those who come late just get the scraps [litt. 'bones'].



              This is admittedly not English, but a reference exists in wikipedia.






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              • My English parents used this saying on me to mean "you are too late and it is your fault". Typically for not getting to the dinner table promptly and the worst I ever actually got was a cold dinner.
                – Simon G.
                Nov 15 '18 at 16:19
















              4














              I've once heard the latin saying :




              Tarde venientibus ossa.




              Those who come late just get the scraps [litt. 'bones'].



              This is admittedly not English, but a reference exists in wikipedia.






              share|improve this answer





















              • My English parents used this saying on me to mean "you are too late and it is your fault". Typically for not getting to the dinner table promptly and the worst I ever actually got was a cold dinner.
                – Simon G.
                Nov 15 '18 at 16:19














              4












              4








              4






              I've once heard the latin saying :




              Tarde venientibus ossa.




              Those who come late just get the scraps [litt. 'bones'].



              This is admittedly not English, but a reference exists in wikipedia.






              share|improve this answer












              I've once heard the latin saying :




              Tarde venientibus ossa.




              Those who come late just get the scraps [litt. 'bones'].



              This is admittedly not English, but a reference exists in wikipedia.







              share|improve this answer












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              answered Nov 15 '18 at 15:03









              mcadorel

              1114




              1114












              • My English parents used this saying on me to mean "you are too late and it is your fault". Typically for not getting to the dinner table promptly and the worst I ever actually got was a cold dinner.
                – Simon G.
                Nov 15 '18 at 16:19


















              • My English parents used this saying on me to mean "you are too late and it is your fault". Typically for not getting to the dinner table promptly and the worst I ever actually got was a cold dinner.
                – Simon G.
                Nov 15 '18 at 16:19
















              My English parents used this saying on me to mean "you are too late and it is your fault". Typically for not getting to the dinner table promptly and the worst I ever actually got was a cold dinner.
              – Simon G.
              Nov 15 '18 at 16:19




              My English parents used this saying on me to mean "you are too late and it is your fault". Typically for not getting to the dinner table promptly and the worst I ever actually got was a cold dinner.
              – Simon G.
              Nov 15 '18 at 16:19











              4














              @drewhart mentioned "that ship has sailed", but it doesn't really imply fault. However a common variant is "You missed the boat", which does imply that it is your fault in much the same way as the Lithuanian proverb.






              share|improve this answer



















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                Yes but neither has any inference of "fault", does it?
                – Robbie Goodwin
                Nov 19 '18 at 20:28










              • @RobbieGoodwin "That ship has sailed" may not, but "You missed the boat" does. Answer edited, as its a good point.
                – Paul Johnson
                Nov 21 '18 at 17:29
















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              @drewhart mentioned "that ship has sailed", but it doesn't really imply fault. However a common variant is "You missed the boat", which does imply that it is your fault in much the same way as the Lithuanian proverb.






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                Yes but neither has any inference of "fault", does it?
                – Robbie Goodwin
                Nov 19 '18 at 20:28










              • @RobbieGoodwin "That ship has sailed" may not, but "You missed the boat" does. Answer edited, as its a good point.
                – Paul Johnson
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              @drewhart mentioned "that ship has sailed", but it doesn't really imply fault. However a common variant is "You missed the boat", which does imply that it is your fault in much the same way as the Lithuanian proverb.






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              @drewhart mentioned "that ship has sailed", but it doesn't really imply fault. However a common variant is "You missed the boat", which does imply that it is your fault in much the same way as the Lithuanian proverb.







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              answered Nov 17 '18 at 8:51









              Paul Johnson

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                Yes but neither has any inference of "fault", does it?
                – Robbie Goodwin
                Nov 19 '18 at 20:28










              • @RobbieGoodwin "That ship has sailed" may not, but "You missed the boat" does. Answer edited, as its a good point.
                – Paul Johnson
                Nov 21 '18 at 17:29














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                Yes but neither has any inference of "fault", does it?
                – Robbie Goodwin
                Nov 19 '18 at 20:28










              • @RobbieGoodwin "That ship has sailed" may not, but "You missed the boat" does. Answer edited, as its a good point.
                – Paul Johnson
                Nov 21 '18 at 17:29








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              Yes but neither has any inference of "fault", does it?
              – Robbie Goodwin
              Nov 19 '18 at 20:28




              Yes but neither has any inference of "fault", does it?
              – Robbie Goodwin
              Nov 19 '18 at 20:28












              @RobbieGoodwin "That ship has sailed" may not, but "You missed the boat" does. Answer edited, as its a good point.
              – Paul Johnson
              Nov 21 '18 at 17:29




              @RobbieGoodwin "That ship has sailed" may not, but "You missed the boat" does. Answer edited, as its a good point.
              – Paul Johnson
              Nov 21 '18 at 17:29











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              If you say




              Too little, too late




              you're "blaming someone for not doing enough to prevent a problem and for taking action only after the problem had become very bad."



              https://www.collinsdictionary.com/dictionary/english/too-little-too-late






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                If you say




                Too little, too late




                you're "blaming someone for not doing enough to prevent a problem and for taking action only after the problem had become very bad."



                https://www.collinsdictionary.com/dictionary/english/too-little-too-late






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                  If you say




                  Too little, too late




                  you're "blaming someone for not doing enough to prevent a problem and for taking action only after the problem had become very bad."



                  https://www.collinsdictionary.com/dictionary/english/too-little-too-late






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                  If you say




                  Too little, too late




                  you're "blaming someone for not doing enough to prevent a problem and for taking action only after the problem had become very bad."



                  https://www.collinsdictionary.com/dictionary/english/too-little-too-late







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                  answered Nov 17 '18 at 7:36









                  DaveBoltman

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                      Although not specifically about lateness an Englishman might remind one of the ongoing consequences of a person`s actions by saying "The pigeons have come (or will have come) home to roost.






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                      • He might well, and that's really not comparable. "The pigeons have (will have) come home to roost" means only that someone's been caught out… if you like, that the pigeon keeper has been caught out but either way, nothing to do with anyone being late unless it's changed to "The pigeons have (will have) already come home to roost."
                        – Robbie Goodwin
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                      Although not specifically about lateness an Englishman might remind one of the ongoing consequences of a person`s actions by saying "The pigeons have come (or will have come) home to roost.






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                      • He might well, and that's really not comparable. "The pigeons have (will have) come home to roost" means only that someone's been caught out… if you like, that the pigeon keeper has been caught out but either way, nothing to do with anyone being late unless it's changed to "The pigeons have (will have) already come home to roost."
                        – Robbie Goodwin
                        Nov 22 '18 at 19:12














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                      Although not specifically about lateness an Englishman might remind one of the ongoing consequences of a person`s actions by saying "The pigeons have come (or will have come) home to roost.






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                      Although not specifically about lateness an Englishman might remind one of the ongoing consequences of a person`s actions by saying "The pigeons have come (or will have come) home to roost.







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                      answered Nov 21 '18 at 11:55









                      Aled Cymro

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                      • He might well, and that's really not comparable. "The pigeons have (will have) come home to roost" means only that someone's been caught out… if you like, that the pigeon keeper has been caught out but either way, nothing to do with anyone being late unless it's changed to "The pigeons have (will have) already come home to roost."
                        – Robbie Goodwin
                        Nov 22 '18 at 19:12


















                      • He might well, and that's really not comparable. "The pigeons have (will have) come home to roost" means only that someone's been caught out… if you like, that the pigeon keeper has been caught out but either way, nothing to do with anyone being late unless it's changed to "The pigeons have (will have) already come home to roost."
                        – Robbie Goodwin
                        Nov 22 '18 at 19:12
















                      He might well, and that's really not comparable. "The pigeons have (will have) come home to roost" means only that someone's been caught out… if you like, that the pigeon keeper has been caught out but either way, nothing to do with anyone being late unless it's changed to "The pigeons have (will have) already come home to roost."
                      – Robbie Goodwin
                      Nov 22 '18 at 19:12




                      He might well, and that's really not comparable. "The pigeons have (will have) come home to roost" means only that someone's been caught out… if you like, that the pigeon keeper has been caught out but either way, nothing to do with anyone being late unless it's changed to "The pigeons have (will have) already come home to roost."
                      – Robbie Goodwin
                      Nov 22 '18 at 19:12





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